How to Thrive through 
our Stressful Modern-Day Lives

According to Web MD, 75-90% of doctors visits are stress related, this means that the majority of people who get sick do so as a result of high stress.

 

To overcome stress, we need to understand how our bodies work. Stress, in short bursts, is not harmful it helps keep us safe from immediate threats, like being attacked by a wild animal. The problem is that your nervous system isn’t very good at distinguishing between emotional and physical threats.

 

In today's world, the ‘wild animal’ we face is our lifestyle, work demands, social pressures, financial stress, and constant digital stimulation.

 

When you face stress, your heart beats faster, your muscles tighten, your blood pressure rises, your breath quickens and your senses become sharper. Our blood vessels also constrict and if we were attacked, this could save us from bleeding out quickly, but if we are always stressed, it can lead to high blood pressure and heart problems.

 

When we are stressed, our metabolism slows down, this is because our body is trying to conserve energy in case we don't get a chance to eat in the near future. This would be a useful survival mechanism if we were in a dangerous situation and we didn't know when we would next be able to eat, but for most of us, this is not the case.

Our bodies also turn their attention away from things that are not seen as necessary in that moment, like sex drive, digestion, etc. Again, this is a great survival mechanism if you are in genuine danger, but if it is endured over a long period of time, it will upset your digestive and reproductive systems.

We are designed to experience stress in short bursts, but when we endure stress for long periods of time, it becomes a problem. Unfortunately, our bodies struggle to distinguish between being attacked by a wild animal and experiencing an overwhelming workload.

 

Stress can lead to:

- Weight gain
- Digestion issues

- Weakened Immunity
- Low sex drive

- Cognitive decline
- Heart problems
- Insulin resistance
- Sleep disorders
- Anxiety and depression
- Hormonal Imbalances

- Accelerated Aging
- Much more 

Ways to Reduce Stress

Now that we understand how stress affects the body, let's look at practical ways to reduce it. 

1. 15 minutes of Boredom Every Day / Dopamine Detox.

We don’t allow ourselves to be "bored" enough. In today’s world of constant stimulation, our brains rarely get a break, this keeps cortisol levels (our stress hormone) high and stress ever-present. Making time to disconnect is essential. Step away from screens, take a slow walk, and spend more time in nature. Think of meditation not just as a relaxation technique, but as a form of intentional boredom, a way to reset your nervous system.

 

That said, it’s not always easy. Stress itself can become addictive. The rush of stimulation, the dopamine hits, they can keep us locked in the cycle, making stillness feel uncomfortable. But the more we practice stepping away, the easier it becomes.

Start with going for a 15 minute walk everyday without any stimulation. 

2. HIIT Exercise 

Any sort of exercise can improve your stress levels and release endorphins which are your feel-good hormones, however intensity matters. HIIT (high intensity interval training) or intense aerobic exercise like running (which causes you to sweat) releases most endorphins

Poor sleep increases cortisol levels, making stress worse! To learn how to optimise your sleep, click HERE.

Your diet also plays a huge role. Processed foods and sugar create internal stress and can also increase cortisol levels. To discover easy nutrition tips for lowering stress, click HERE

4. Breathwork & Deep Breathing

Deep breathing signals your nervous system to shift from "fight-or-flight" mode to "rest-and-digest." It can lower cortisol levels in just a few minutes.

 

Wim Hof Method: Click HERE to watch this video and follow along (3x30 breaths with a breath hold in between each set.)
4-7-8 method: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, exhale slowly for 8 seconds. Repeat 4 times.
Box breathing: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold again for 4.
Diaphragmatic breathing: Breathe deeply into your belly rather than your chest.


Pair deep breathing with your morning routine or before bed to naturally reduce stress.

5. Cold Exposure (Cold Showers or Ice Baths)

Cold exposure activates the vagus nerve, which helps regulate stress responses and reduces inflammation.

 

Easy ways to start introducing cold exposure:


1. End your shower with 30 seconds of cold water and gradually increase over time.
2. If that’s too intense, put your face into cold water (or just splash your face) or even use ice packs on the back of your neck.

 

Cold exposure also boosts dopamine levels, helping improve mood and focus.

6. Journaling

Writing down your thoughts helps clear mental clutter and reduces stress.


Brain Dump: Write freely about your worries and emotions for 5-10 minutes.
Gratitude Journaling: List three things you're grateful for every day.
Solution-Focused Journaling: Instead of just venting, write possible solutions to your stressors.


Tip: Keep a small journal by your bed, writing before sleep can help calm an overactive mind.

7. Social Connection & Laughter

Strong social support lowers stress hormones, and laughter naturally reduces cortisol.


- Call a friend or family member for a short chat.
- Watch something funny—stand-up comedy, memes, or funny videos.
- Spend time with pets—playing with animals boosts oxytocin, a stress-reducing hormone.

8. Herbs

Certain herbs have been used for centuries to help the body cope with stress. Ashwagandha is an adaptogen that helps regulate cortisol, while Sceletium and Green Kratom promote relaxation. 

Our Sleepy caps can also help with relaxation and calmness, they are normally uses in the evening, but they can be used at any time of the day. 

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